Source: The Great Learning
Priorities reversed; what deserves care is being neglected.
"Treating lightly what should be valued, and valuing what should be treated lightly": priorities reversed. Ask whether you are neglecting the person who truly matters while pouring energy into what doesn't deserve it.
| Single | Notice who truly treats you well, not just who dazzles. |
|---|---|
| Dating | Give your time and heart to your partner, not distractions. |
| Married | Put family first; don't reverse the order. |
From the Great Learning: "If the root is in disorder, the branches cannot be well ordered; to be cold where one should be warm and warm where one should be cold has never succeeded."
Text: the 100-lot Matchmaker (Yue Lao) oracle used in Taiwan. Most lots quote classical texts; sources were checked against the originals, obvious copying errors corrected, and uncertain sources marked as such.
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