Source: Analects, "Gongye Chang"
Think it over twice, that's enough; don't hesitate too long.
"Twice is enough." Overthinking spoils things. If you already know your answer, stop hesitating; seize the moment and decide.
| Single | If you like someone, act; don't let hesitation cost you. |
|---|---|
| Dating | Don't put off decisions; say what needs saying. |
| Married | Once you've discussed it at home, act on it. |
From the Analects: Ji Wenzi thought three times before acting; hearing this, Confucius said, "Twice is enough", since too much thinking breeds hesitation.
Text: the 100-lot Matchmaker (Yue Lao) oracle used in Taiwan. Most lots quote classical texts; sources were checked against the originals, obvious copying errors corrected, and uncertain sources marked as such.
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