Source: Analects, "Xue Er"
Sweet talk may not be sincere; be attentive.
"Clever words and a pleasing face seldom go with true goodness." A warning: notice whether someone only says sweet things, and whether their actions match; be sincere yourself.
| Single | Stay clear-headed about sweet talk; watch actions. |
|---|---|
| Dating | If words and deeds don't match, ask directly. |
| Married | Value real care over pleasant words. |
From the Analects: "Clever words and an ingratiating face are seldom found with goodness."
Text: the 100-lot Matchmaker (Yue Lao) oracle used in Taiwan. Most lots quote classical texts; sources were checked against the originals, obvious copying errors corrected, and uncertain sources marked as such.
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