Source: Zengguang Xianwen
What you chase may not bloom; love may grow where you least expect.
"Plant flowers on purpose and they won't bloom; stick in a willow carelessly and it gives shade." What you force may fail; what you leave alone may flourish. Relax; you may meet the right person where you least expect.
| Single | Don't force it; do the things you enjoy and let love find you. |
|---|---|
| Dating | Don't over-manage; things go better when you're natural. |
| Married | Lower your expectations and you'll find unexpected warmth. |
A saying found in the Ming–Qing primer Zengguang Xianwen: deliberate effort may fail, while something done casually succeeds.
Text: the 100-lot Matchmaker (Yue Lao) oracle used in Taiwan. Most lots quote classical texts; sources were checked against the originals, obvious copying errors corrected, and uncertain sources marked as such.
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