Source: Book of Songs, "Zhong Gu You Tui"
This person may not be right for you; look clearly before deciding.
"I have met someone who is not good." A warning: the person you've met may not be right for you. See their character and actions clearly before you commit; if you have been hurt, protect yourself.
| Single | Observe someone new carefully before investing yourself. |
|---|---|
| Dating | Notice warning signs; seek advice from people you trust. |
| Married | If you feel wronged or disrespected, face it and seek help. |
From "Zhong Gu You Tui" in the Book of Songs: in a famine year a woman abandoned by her husband laments, "How hard it is to meet the right man! I met one who was not good."
Text: the 100-lot Matchmaker (Yue Lao) oracle used in Taiwan. Most lots quote classical texts; sources were checked against the originals, obvious copying errors corrected, and uncertain sources marked as such.
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