Source: Mencius, "Gaozi I"
Seek and you will find; let go and it will be lost.
"Seek and you will find; let go and you will lose." The chance is in your hands; if there is someone in your heart, go for it. Let go too easily and you may miss it.
| Single | If you like someone, say so; don't just wait. |
|---|---|
| Dating | A relationship needs effort; active care makes it last. |
| Married | Keep watering the marriage; don't let it go cold. |
From Mencius: benevolence, righteousness, propriety and wisdom are innate; "seek them and you have them, neglect them and you lose them".
Text: the 100-lot Matchmaker (Yue Lao) oracle used in Taiwan. Most lots quote classical texts; sources were checked against the originals, obvious copying errors corrected, and uncertain sources marked as such.
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