Source: Han Yu, "Elegy for My Nephew"
Alone for now; your bond has not yet arrived.
"Two generations, one person; a lone body and a lone shadow." For now you are alone; the bond has not yet arrived. Use this time to care for yourself and enrich your life while you wait.
| Single | Love hasn't come yet; love yourself first. |
|---|---|
| Dating | If you feel lonely even together, say what you need. |
| Married | If often apart, make time to be together. |
From Han Yu's "Elegy for My Nephew": he and his nephew were each the last of their generation, "two generations, one body each, a lone form and a lone shadow", depending on each other; when the nephew died young, Han Yu mourned him.
Text: the 100-lot Matchmaker (Yue Lao) oracle used in Taiwan. Most lots quote classical texts; sources were checked against the originals, obvious copying errors corrected, and uncertain sources marked as such.
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