Source: The Great Learning
It has gone too far; even kind help may not change it.
"Even with good people, nothing can be done." The situation may be beyond repair; don't force it. Putting your energy into healing and starting over means more than holding on.
| Single | Don't chase someone who no longer responds; take your heart back. |
|---|---|
| Dating | If it can't be saved, face the ending calmly. |
| Married | In serious marital trouble, seek professional help. |
From the Great Learning: if petty men govern, disasters arrive together, and "even if there are good men, nothing can be done".
Text: the 100-lot Matchmaker (Yue Lao) oracle used in Taiwan. Most lots quote classical texts; sources were checked against the originals, obvious copying errors corrected, and uncertain sources marked as such.
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